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"Preferring to date a race isn’t racist! It’s like preferring a certain hair color or height"


Let me break this down:

- Race is a social construct invented by Western Europeans to justify chattel slavery. Preferences aren’t biological or something you are born with, because race didn’t even exist until about 500 years ago.

-  Among PoC, there is no race/ethnic group/country where all the people have anything in common besides being from a certain part of the world. Among PoC, there is no race where every member has the same skin color, hair color, hair type, eye color, language, clothing, culture, etc. 

- The only race whose members all have something in common is white- all white people have to have light skin in order to be white. This rule was created by white people themselves, and is intentionally exclusive.

- Don’t even pretend that you don’t know there is a racial hierarchy in beauty. Everyone knows that in Western culture white women are seen as the most desirable, black women are seen as the least desirable, and everyone else is in the middle. Funny how these “innate” and “random” preferences seem to line up perfectly with white beauty standards/white supremacist ideals.

- No more false equivalencies. PoC not wanting to date white people is not the same as the reverse. PoC almost never believe that white people are unattractive/ugly, they just find it too difficult to meet a white person who is actively unlearning and working to dismantle white supremacy. 

- Stop trying to defend yourself. If you have racial or ethnic preferences, whether they are positive or negative, you are the problem, stop blaming it on everyone else. You have to acknowledge and unlearn whatever stereotype you’ve absorbed. 

Like a previous post I made, this post is also not a place to try to debate whether racial preferences are bad or not. I’ve made my statement based on pretty obvious facts about Western culture and white supremacy. If you don’t agree, move on.
However, feel free to share your experiences with this (either involving you or someone else).

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Anonymous Asked: White privilege is having hair that grows 💁



Starting from the top left, we have Miss Kash Doll with her long flowing ponytail, Miss EClark and that lovely brown mane, and Miss Jess with her curly tresses. Now in the middle, we have Miss Courtney with her wavy thick hair and Miss Jess again with her hair now straightened! Look at Miss Chime in the right hand corner followed by Miss Toya, and the beautiful twins Miss Kelsey and Miss Kendra. All of these fully Black women have such long, healthy locks of hair. There’s wayyyyyyy more out there, but you get the point. By the way, I am also a fully Black woman with hair that is down my back and has clearly “grown”.

Please don’t be mad at us Beautiful Ebony Queens because of that thin mess you claim as hair on your scalp. We’ll keep our thick, voluminous hair that can grow with ease :-)


And just because I’m so nice, I’ll slide this picture in here with White women that clearly have trouble growing their hair…but that’s not my business.

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